The Power of Now

Spiritual masters have long held that we are happiest when our minds are situated in the present. They note that suffering occurs when our minds wander to the past or future. But is this empirically true?

Matt Killingsworth and Daniel Gilbert conducted a brilliant study involving real time experience sampling. This was exceptionally difficult to do before smartphones.

We solved this problem by developing a Web application for the iPhone (Apple Incorporated, Cupertino, California), which we used to create an unusually large database of real-time reports of thoughts, feelings, and actions of a broad range of people as they went about their daily activities.The application contacts participants through their iPhones at random moments during their waking hours, presents them with questions,and records their answers to a database at www.trackyourhappiness.org.1

Here’s what they found:

Figure 1. Mean happiness reported during each activity (top) and while mind wandering to unpleasant topics, neutral topics, pleasant topics or not mind wandering (bottom). Dashed line indicates mean of happiness across all samples. Bubble area indicates the frequency of occurrence. The largest bubble (“not mind wandering”) corresponds to 53.1% of the samples, and the smallest bubble (“praying/worshipping/meditating”) corresponds to 0.1% of the samples.
First, people’s minds wandered frequently, regardless of what they were doing.

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Second, multilevel regression revealed that people were less happy when their minds were wandering than when they were not [...] and this was true during all activities [...].

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Third, what people were thinking was a better predictor of their happiness than was what they were doing.

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In conclusion, a human mind is a wandering mind, and a wandering mind is an unhappy mind.The ability to think about what is not happening is a cognitive achievement that comes at an emotional cost.

What are the implications for living well? Be here now. ✸


  1. Killingsworth MA, Gilbert DT. A wandering mind is an unhappy mind. Science 2010;330(6006):932. PMID: 21071660.

Thinking Problems

Paul O., a physician, was the author of Acceptance Was the Answer, a beloved chapter in the Big Book.1 He expanded on his philosophy in a subsequent book.2

At the very outset Paul O. noted:

Alcoholism is both a drinking and thinking problem.3

In Chapter 3 — “Mental Sobriety” — he cleverly tweaked Robert Seliger’s “liquor test”4 by replacing drink(ing) with think(ing):

  1. Do you lose time from work due to your thinking?
  2. Is your thinking making your home life unhappy?
  3. Do you think because you are shy with other people?
  4. Is your thinking affecting your reputation?
  5. Have you ever felt remorse after thinking?
  6. Have you gotten into financial difficulty as a result of thinking?
  7. Do you turn to lower companions or an inferior environment when thinking?
  8. Does your thinking make you careless of your family’s welfare?
  9. Has your ambition decreased since thinking?
  10. Do you crave a think at a definite time daily?
  11. Do you want to think the next morning?
  12. Does thinking cause you to have difficulty in sleeping?
  13. Has your efficiency decreased since thinking?
  14. Is thinking jeopardizing your job or business?
  15. Do you think to escape from worries or trouble?
  16. Do you think alone?
  17. Have you ever had a complete loss of memory as a result of thinking?
  18. Has your physician ever treated you for thinking?
  19. Do you think to build up your self-confidence?
  20. Have you ever been to a hospital or institution on account of your thinking?5

A few pages later Paul O. observed:

All my problems today are thinking problems. I don't even have a problem unless I think I do. If I think I have a problem, I have a problem; if I don't think I have a problem, I don't have a problem. Never have I thought I had a problem and been wrong.

Not only do I alone decide whether or not I have a problem; I alone determine the size of my problems. I don't have many little problems; I don't bother with them. [...] When I do have a little problem, all I have to do to make it a big problem is to think about it.6

Humorous, simple, profound. ✸


  1. Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th ed. New York: Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, 2001, pp. 407–420
  2. There’s More to Quitting Drinking Than Quitting Drinking. Torrence, CA: Capizon Publishing, 1995
  3. There’s More, p. cover
  4. Alcoholics Are Sick People. Baltimore: Alcoholism Publications, 1945, pp. 9–12
  5. There’s More, p. 39
  6. There’s More, p. 54

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